Will my marriage survive the lockdown?
We have all heard the predictions. Coronavirus will be a goldmine for Toronto Family Lawyers. Covid-19 will cause an increase in separation and divorce. Divorce Lawyers can’t wait until the lockdown is lifted. The truth is, the best Family Lawyers will always prefer a happy couple to a couple who is locked in a custody battle.
How can you ensure that the lockdown doesn’t result in separation and divorce? What can you do to help your marriage survive coronavirus? What steps should you take to make sure that Covid-19 doesn’t result in you having to meet with a Toronto Family Lawyer?
Here are a few tips to help your marriage survive the lockdown:
(1) Reduce the criticism. Now is not the time to be constantly pointing out your spouse’s mistakes. Doing this is never a good idea for a marriage and could lead to you needing a Toronto Divorce Lawyer. However, doing so during a health crisis is especially troubling, particularly when it comes to money. Try to focus on what your spouse is doing right and then show appreciation.
(2) Increase the intimacy. Too much togetherness and stress can sometimes lead to feelings of a loss of intimacy. Carve out some alone time. Sex can be a stress reliever. Its also a nice break from the kids!
(3) Fight elsewhere. Children don’t want to see you fight. Kids get stressed when parents argue. Keep it up and you will end up in Family Court fighting for custody. Cool down. Then go for a walk together. If your kids are old enough, give them a list of things to do to keep them occupied. Some couples have their best talks while they are walking. Being in public may also make you think twice before raising your voice!
(4) Share housekeeping chores in a way that makes sense to both partners. Chores don’t need to be shared exactly equally. Maybe one parent is more comfortable washing dishes while the other is more comfortable taking out the garbage. Don’t forget to thank you spouse for his or her contribution. Showing a lot of appreciation could lead to number (2)!
(5) Don’t be afraid to seek professional help. Its important for couples to discuss marital conflict. If you are a couple who lacks the skills necessary to resolve problems, then reach out to someone you trust. A mediator, a friend, a counselor. Do this before you find yourself in Family Court or in the office of a Toronto Family Lawyer.
By putting some of these suggestions into action, you may be able to avoid separation and divorce. If not, and you find you need the help of an Inexpensive Toronto Divorce Lawyer, then please contact us at